Sure, there can be some comfort in playing it safe. But no one likes a boring hookup! Try these tips to blow your next partner away.
1.Turn them on. Text them something to get them thinking about you! But avoid cheap innuendoes or the forgettable nude. Instead, try something outside the box– like those useless pictures you take of the board during class or a forwarded verification code. Do not provide context!
2. Set the vibe. Throw on some music, but don’t be afraid to venture past your standard R&B. Feel free to spice things up a bit. (Suggested genres include: Christian rock, heavy metal, and an unedited recording of your spoken word poetry.)
3. Focus on foreplay. The best way to ensure passion down the line is to build up to it. Try this: while kissing your partner passionately, keep your eyes open. If at any point your hookup partner opens their eyes to readjust, make sure you catch their gaze. They should be well-aware that your eyes have been open the whole time. Even consider making a joke like, “my eyes are getting so dry, ahaha.” It’s okay to laugh while you’re getting it on!
4. Don’t be afraid to vocalize. The best way to show your partner that you’re enjoying yourself is through verbal affirmation. They might be accustomed to the usual ooooh’s and aaaahhh’s, but have you ever tried something different? Next time you reach the big O, try hitting them with: “The quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog,” a childhood secret, or even your own name. Show them just how råndom you are!
5. Be mysterious. Particularly after the hookup, a bit of mystery can go a long way. It’s important to always keep your partner guessing. If you run into them in person, try introducing yourself as a different person altogether or, again, not blinking. Sex appeal is all about being elusive!
Of course, these tips apply to all hookups, but feel free to use them for that special person you want to keep on their toes!
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